It’s something we all have one way or another.
We humans do feel the need to give our love, our help or our friendship to others, even more when those gaps are very much alive in our “hearts”.
Anxiety strikes and it can be confusing, all those mixed feelings about giving all we feel, take or maybe both...
I do dare to ask how many times we give to others all that we really need ourselves?
This is a new concept I found for myself and it’s very fulfilling I must say, giving all I need to myself instead, if I see I need it more…
Nothing selfish here, just when you reach a point when everybody is complaining about what they don’t have and all they think they want and need, it does makes me wonder…
If we keep giving to others and never feeling appreciated or not getting what we need, so why not do it ourselves?
If we keep giving everything we have to what’s outside, then yes we will feel empty and emotionally full of gaps no one can do something about it but us, because we are the experts on our needs…
Life can steal a lot from us , sometimes we will never be able to replace it, but we can build up inside ourselves all we need to function and to fulfill our emotional gaps instead of always looking for a desperate way to give it all away or to get it all from others.
It’s very curious how wise our mind and body are, they give us all we need, all the signs and all the resources to live our best life, and yet we can be lost from it all until we die and never getting it no matter how many tools we have along the way.
We do have too many distractions in life, too many unimportant things and on the 21st century we still lost from ourselves.
I say, if you need love, give it to yourself, if you need a friend, be the best friend you wish for, instead of buying objects for those gaps, use all the good you have inside to have what you want .
Only then it’s the right time to love, to be someone’s best friend or someone’s mother or father, for example.
We humans do feel the need to give our love, our help or our friendship to others, even more when those gaps are very much alive in our “hearts”.
Anxiety strikes and it can be confusing, all those mixed feelings about giving all we feel, take or maybe both...
I do dare to ask how many times we give to others all that we really need ourselves?
This is a new concept I found for myself and it’s very fulfilling I must say, giving all I need to myself instead, if I see I need it more…
Nothing selfish here, just when you reach a point when everybody is complaining about what they don’t have and all they think they want and need, it does makes me wonder…
If we keep giving to others and never feeling appreciated or not getting what we need, so why not do it ourselves?
If we keep giving everything we have to what’s outside, then yes we will feel empty and emotionally full of gaps no one can do something about it but us, because we are the experts on our needs…
Life can steal a lot from us , sometimes we will never be able to replace it, but we can build up inside ourselves all we need to function and to fulfill our emotional gaps instead of always looking for a desperate way to give it all away or to get it all from others.
It’s very curious how wise our mind and body are, they give us all we need, all the signs and all the resources to live our best life, and yet we can be lost from it all until we die and never getting it no matter how many tools we have along the way.
We do have too many distractions in life, too many unimportant things and on the 21st century we still lost from ourselves.
I say, if you need love, give it to yourself, if you need a friend, be the best friend you wish for, instead of buying objects for those gaps, use all the good you have inside to have what you want .
Only then it’s the right time to love, to be someone’s best friend or someone’s mother or father, for example.
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