Love...

What is it exactly? Our need to feel ourselves or others?
Yes more questions than answers, but why do we feel like we need it?
Do others makes us feel complete, or we just need to feed our emotional ego and call it love?
It does serves alot of desires, maybe that's why most say they never found it...
What if, we feel so complete with ourselves that we only need good friends? And why not a good lover? Would we remember to look for love? Would that be the name for it? One love I don't see much around, is people saying they love themselves, they have to much guilt, to much bad feelings to do that, that's what they say...
So why fight so much for the love of others if they feel the same as those who can't love themselves?
Why we look so much for those "things"? Shouldn't we know first what they are, before we go demanding it from other "lost" people too?
If we love ourselves, we'll accept who we are and have a lot of respect for it ....
Do we accept others the way they are without wishing they were diferent? And if the answer is no, why stay? More needs...?
Shouldn't we be honest with ourselves and find all answers inside our minds without fears nor judgements?
It's the question that will open alot of internal doors...
We do need to stop feeling guilty for our "bad decisions" or bad life and learn from all we live and stop blaming others for our lack of happyness and love...
Love, I prefer to call it the best time we have with others, when freedom to express our feelings and thoughts are respected by those we wish to have with us, not to own or to change to please.
All of this takes alot of work, we have to stop lying to ourselves and to all, life is to short to be waisted on things that not let us be who we are nor how free we should be.
It can't be done with some strange thoughts like, addicted to shoes or 24 hours a week spended on the outside shell, because if that's all we have to give to those we seek love think again, they are buying what we give them, a shell, not showing who we are but what we want from it, not to know others but just saying how much time it was spended on the outside...
Then, alot of times happens that nothing is to be found besides that, so it can be very confusing... Do we want to look good but have alot more to give and to show ouselves, or we just want to feed that hungry ego and say we don't need to think because we have the looks...? Do we know how to listen, comunicate, respect, feel, love, hate, can we realy think...?
Do we even question why we do the things we do, and realy want a true answer only we know what it is, but to afraid all will fall apart if we dare to see it?
Prioritys, what comes first, us or them? We sure do atract what we give, so... Fingers crossed.